Monday, May 14, 2012

Great Success & Sweet Experience with Companion

Dear Family,

I enjoyed seeing you and talking with you yesterday. I have to say it was a needed boost of excitement and energy to lose myself even more in the work! So, I can't wait to tell you about last night. This was a moment that changed my life as a missionary and a person in general. So, we got Elder Carlson hooked up with Skype and his family and he started chatting away enjoying every minute with his family. He has expressed to me many times how much he misses his family. Meanwhile, I was making some tortas fritas, some Argentine desert thing, but he was having a fun time with his family. When it came time to end his call, I told him that I wanted to talk to his family too. So, I sat down next to him and I expressed my gratitude for him as a companion and to his parents for having raised him the way they did. I explained to him that he has such a desire to work and that he is a great example to me and  a wonderful friend. His family, and himself, were left in tears. I then left the room to let him finish his talk and I began to cook in the kitchen. He came in a little later and was pretty quiet for a while. He then said to me, "You know, what you did there at the end of the call . . . well, thanks." He cried. The tears streamed down his face and then I stopped cooking and gave him a big hug. He then expressed to me how his trainer had been very critical of him and his whole life he had often felt lonely and that he didn't fit in. He said that it was the single most nicest thing anyone has ever done for him. I told him that he should never let anyone tell him he's worthless or that he doesn't matter. I told him he's a son of God and he is important and special. I said that no matter where he is or what anyone says, you will always have a Father in Heaven who loves you, and that that crazy Elder Cowan will always be your friend. It was a tearful, special growing moment. Last night I talked with all the elders in our pench and we have decided to stop pulling as many pranks on him and to find ways to help him. I asked Carlson about the 5 love languages and he told me that his is definitely through verbal expression. We are all going to try to compliment him on something everyday. I am going to make it a goal to do it every single hour and every lesson. I just want to help this wonderful kid out!

So, with the work, we are having a lot of success, we will be baptizing two next week and then each succeeding week, we will have one or two more. We are making it a goal to baptize every single week of June!! That would be the best birthday present ever! With my birthday, I really don't know what I want. I love getting pictures and showing people about my life and about the lives of the ones I love. 

So, I've got more snakes in Guernica. Melani told me she wants to marry me someday when I finish the mission and she was really sad when she figured out that the mission is only two years long and that I don't actually live here. She's a cool girl though! She has such a testimony of the Church! She has asisted [attended--the Spanish word for attend is "asistir" so you can see he gets confused with this word] seminary for about three weeks and has been asisting church every week too! She will be another easy baptism. She just is always so excited for it! I can't believe we have only taught her once too! She has been taught and prepared by the youth of our ward more than anything! The youth are the key to the missionary work success here. They bring their friends to everything! We have five investigators in seminary now asisting regularly!

Another family that is progressing well is the Quiroga family. They are a part member family and the two boys are getting baptized this coming week. Rodrigo is a little unsure, he's eleven, but he just doesn't like sacrament meeting because it's boring for him. He likes learning about the church when we come over though. I am praying for him to get more excited about baptism and to asist [attend] church afterwards too.

So, this other part member family is Pedro and Sandra. He is currently getting divorced from another lady and then will be marrying Sandra. She is so excited for it! He told us that no matter what it takes, he will do anything to get his children and soon-to-be wife baptized. They have no problem either with it! So let's pray that all the documents and things pass through quickly and easily so they can be married and baptized.

Also, this man, Juan came to church last week and we had a chat with him that was very spiritual! We explained baptism and how that we can literally start over and have no more guilt and sin. He wants that very much! He decided to pray and ask God if that is the thing he needs to do. He is only afraid of letting God down. He doesn't want to fall and sin again. He wants to live his life right under the sight of our Heavenly Father. He couldn't come to church yesterday because he was going to take a friend to the hospital. But, he will probably be baptized on the 3rd of June! 

And the last most exciting thing this week is that we found this amazingly prepared lady during a contact the other day. Her name is Martina and she has studied every other religion and has found they don't have the truth. She is very interested in the message of the Restoration and wants to read the Book of Mormon. She told us to pass by in one week and she said she'll have either read the whole book or a good portion if she doesn't have much time. I am praying that we go over there and she just has the strongest testimony of the book and the Restoration when we go back. I would love to find someone like that! She's best friends with a slightly less active member too and we are going to work with them both, baptizing one and reactivating the other.

So those were all of our really spiritual and exciting lessons this past week. I was going to send a video or some pictures home, but we need to leave the cyber a little early to meet up with some other elders at our pench to eat lunch and I'm REALLY hungry! Ha ha! Oh, and don't worry, I got my hair cut this morning. It's still not as good as when mom cuts my hair! Never is the same. . . But I love you all so much! I'm so glad that I got to talk with you and I hope Trevor and Justin are doing good! I'd like to hear from Justin this next week. I was hoping to be able to skype him yesterday, but he wasn't on. Please write me!! And someone get RJ to write me. I want a big update on his life and all his questions. I know he always wants advice too. And tease Carly cause she missed her first week of writing me this week! Kevin, I am not responding till you do it. You know what I'm talking about. Well, I love you all and am so grateful for my mission and all the wonderful people who support me! Have a wonderful week!

Love,

Elder Blake W. Cowan

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